Moms are often overstimulated by all the noise in the house with persistent questioning or siblings arguing. It can be so hard but sometimes saying less is best and leads to teachable moments that promote independence.
Do you ever feel like the teacher in the Peanuts cartoon? You’re talking, but it’s evident that your kids are definitely not listening. It’s not hard to imagine that all they’re hearing is that classic trombone sound of Wah Wa Wa Wah Wa Wa.
Sometimes I feel like a record on repeat, saying the same reminders and reprimands over and over. Pick up your toys. Shut the door all the way. Don’t forget your mask. Please leave each other alone.
All this talking feels a bit fruitless. Somewhere along the line, I’ve fallen into the habit of always responding to my kids’ requests, comments, whines, and questions. Tired of not being heard, I decided to experiment with saying less one day. What an eye-opener! Suddenly I saw so many instances where the best response was none at all.
